Unveiled, Cherry Mosteshar
This is the autobiography of Cherry Mosteshar, a successful journalist and ghost writer, currently based in Great Britain. She is Iranian by birth, but grew up in Great Britain in her formative years. She went back to Iran as an adult and as a journalist, and lived through Hell. She was used to having liberties and rights in Great Britain, but was forced to cover up in Iran under Muslim rule, as well as live under obedience to the men around her. She tells about many of her family members and other people she knew and the things they went through, so much difficult and tragic stuff, it's hard to wrap one's mind around it, because I do not live in a country where you are constantly interrogated and guilty until proven innocent, you must pay bribes to go anywhere, do anything, be seen by doctors, get any kind of assistance at all....you are constantly watched and neighbors will report you for anything that might be a perceived infraction of moral or political law.
She tells of her courtship to a man named Muhammad, how he started out mild mannered and once engaged, turned into a lazy, abusive, evil monster, and she learned after marriage that he was still married to his first wife, making Cherry the second wife. He raped her, he beat her, and he lived off her money. There was no way she could divorce him according to their law, unless he consented, which he never did. She eventually went back to Great Britain and she refused to go back to Iran in the end, although he still would not divorce her.
We in the United States are so fortunate we have rights and for the most part, those rights are protected. Any woman under Muslim law loses her rights and must live according to what her husband, father, brother, or son decides. She must have permission from her husband to travel, even. She is seen as inferior, and no matter what she does, she is looked at as a whore if she is not covered from head to toe.
I am so thankful for my life, and I was so thankful that the author was able to escape the terrible marriage she was in and escape her home country in the end. I hope she was able to find peace and healing. I was not able to find out a lot about her, looking her up, but she is a ghost writer and has written many books in collaboration with others.